Your life purpose and vision MUST be nurtured like they’re your children.

One of the biggest mistakes that many visionary entrepreneurs make is sharing their vision with people who are NOT likeminded.

This is a BIG deal!

Putting yourself in the line of fire of someone who will try to tear your vision apart is so incredibly sabotaging.

And if you’re not absolutely steadfast in your belief and confidence that your vision is amazing just as it is, you might find yourself very quickly adopting judgments about your life purpose THAT AREN’T YOURS!

I’ve noticed over the years that some of the most paradigm-shifting visions haven’t even gotten out of the gate…

…Because the person guarding that vision isn’t clear about how to make it a reality and seeks out help from people who have more conventional perspectives.

Let me make one thing perfectly clear:

Broadcasting your vision MUST FEEL GOOD!

Trying to fit your vision and life purpose into the model of conventional-marketing-wisdom can drain you of your passion for getting your business in front of the RIGHT eyes.

Yes, you want to get your business-model created so it reaches and HELPS the right people, while also producing the income you want, need and deserve…

…But you have to be methodical about HOW you’re going to manifest your goals.

I also understand that…

…It’s normal to feel excited about sharing your vision and life purpose with as many people as you can, without demonstrating discernment… even when you feel like the people you’re reaching out to ARE likeminded.

This is just as sabotaging, because once again, you’re opening yourself up for opinions that might influence you and take you off of your path.

You’re also making yourself vulnerable to becoming the victim (if you let yourself) of likeminded people’s jealousy.

It can be vicious, believe me!

Make no mistake about it… 

Your life purpose and vision MUST be nurtured like they’re your children.

You have to protect your passion and inspiration like the MAJOR commodities they are.

You unconditionally must utilize your intuition about who is appropriate to share your vision with.

This so enormously vital…

…I can’t possibly be clearer about this point.

At the end of the day, getting your vision out there takes calculated, CONSCIOUS choices.

But above all else, you can’t be searching for attention from others by sharing your vision and life purpose with people who won’t get it.

You must ALWAYS exercise the maturity to be selective about who you bring into the manifestation process.

That’s HOW visionary entrepreneurs make the kind of impact they dream about!

That’s also why I’m here to help you!

To Your Inevitable Success!

call  Tony at 707-372-8698  or email at ctcinternational@aol.com
 

Coaching Programs- Nourish the mind like you would your body. The mind cannot survive on junk food.” — Jim Rohn

  Nourish the mind like you would your body. The mind cannot survive on junk food.” — Jim Rohn

Treat yourself to a VIP DAY
 

Treat yourself like the VIP that you are. Spend a full day with Tony working on your business and creating a game plan for extraordinary results in the next 3, 6 or 12 months.

The goal of the VIP Day is simply stated – create a detailed strategy for significant success! We’re talking breakthrough results in the next 3-6 months. Tony’s exclusive one-on-one VIP Day will help you analyze the areas of your business that will enable you to create those breakthrough results. Along the way, you will gain clarity and a foundation to support your vision, including a practical game plan with the steps you must take.

You might know exactly where you need to focus – you may need to address specific areas in order to position yourself to win. Alternately, you can choose from a menu of options to create a powerful day that will set you up for great results, such as…

  • Branding Your Business
  • Creating Your Signature System (defining exactly what you want to provide for your ideal clients)
  • Money (its impact on you, your business and the clients you attract)
  • Charging What You Are Worth and Getting It
  • Creating Your 12-Month Marketing Plan
  • Setting Clearly Defined Goals
  • Removing or Eliminating Obstacles (those situations or patterns that leave your business stuck or struggling)
 
Private Platinum Program

This is an exclusive 12 month private coaching opportunity to create extraordinary results in your business.

If you are looking for structure, support, objective feedback and accountability by a truly experienced business development coach … if you want to make your business run with much less effort and achieve significant growth … this is the perfect program to help you gain the support you need for the success you deserve. In this program, Tony will devote more of his time and attention to your business – helping you refine your marketing, day-to-day work style and overall business development process so that you may take your business to the next level.

 
 
The Double Your Income Program
How do you double your income? Can it really happen? Don’t just dream about it … don’t miss your chance to learn how … sign up for …The Double Your Income Program

Use marketing strategies that are working right now. This dynamic group program covers all the critical strategies – a unique opportunity to get the training that you need to Double Your Results in 12 months or less!

We will address specific topics such as Your  Mindset, how to draw your ideal clients to you, uncovering the value you bring to the table, creating a signature system to stand out from the competition, and setting BOLD goals.

 In addition,  you  will have access to a group forum, where you can continue the conversation, ask questions and share resources with each other to further enhance your business strategies.

Are you ready to participate in a dynamic group program that provides the opportunity for personal one-on-one coaching to address your specific questions? This powerful program will provide just that – innovative content and the opportunity for Q&A time with each call. 

 
As long as you are worried about what others think of you, you are owned by them. Only when you require no approval from outside yourself can you own yourself.
You’re faced with making a choice … a choice that will change your life. You know you can’t go back and yet you’re not quite ready to move forward. What do you do?

Why not honor the “zone of in-between?” Sit quietly, smiling at where you are now and where you hope to be. Then, allow Life to lead…

Sometimes the best decision is no decision at all.

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“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.” ~ Steve Jobs
Stop listening to people who don’t get you.Stop giving energy to dead end conversations.Stop paying attention to unsolicited advice or those “who know better.”

Stop worrying about what everyone else thinks.When you’re tempted to go in another direction out of fear of being judged…Turn around.         Cheryl Richardson

How I Decided to Be a Coach

One day, I finally got it. “I am a coach,” I thought. What is a coach? To me, a coach is a person who is your friend, someone who really cares about you. A coach is committed to helping you be the best that you can be. A coach will challenge you, not let you off the hook. Coaches have knowledge and experience because they have been there before. They are not any better than the people they are coaching. This took away my need to have to be perfect for the people I was “teaching.” In fact, the people they coach may have natural abilities superior to their own. But because coaches have concentrated their power in a particular area for years, they can teach you one or two distinctions that can immediately transform your performance in a matter of moments.

Sometimes coaches can teach you new information, new strategies and skills. They show you how to get measurable results. Sometimes a coach does not even teach you something new, but they remind you of what you need to do at just the right moment, and they push you to do it. I thought, “What I truly am is a Coach”.  I help to coach people on how to achieve what they really want more quickly and more easily.” And everyone needs a coach, whether it’s a top-level executive, a graduate student, a homemaker, a homeless person, or the president of the United States! As soon as I started using this metaphor, it immediately changed the way I felt about myself. I felt less stressed, more relaxed, and closer to people. I didn’t have to be “perfect” or “better.” I began to have more fun, and my impact on people multiplied manifold.

The Top Ten Benefits of Working With A Personal Coach

Hiring a Personal Coach is one of the best things you can do for yourself. A coach is trained to help you discover what your best life looks like and help you get it!

1.     Help you to focus. We all have lots of ideas all the time – a coach will help you to put your energy where it will serve you best to accomplish your goals.

2.     Feel better about yourself. Taking time for you, finding what it is that truly fills you and gives you confidence – empowers you! We call this claiming your Personal Power.

3.     Clarify what you want from life. How about instead of wandering around without a clue, and living life by default, you actually take action and do something. Anytime you do ANYTHING different it creates a shift – you will be creating a new pattern and new ways of doing things that will in turn attract even more good passion and joy to your life!

4.     Provide accountability. Knowing that you’ve made a commitment to yourself and told someone else makes you more likely to stay on task. It’s much easier to let yourself off the hook, but somehow knowing that you said you would do something to someone else makes it easier to follow through – AND you have that support at the end!

5.     Become more authentic. As you make internal changes the world begins to see you differently. You will be amazed that by changing your attitude the world’s attitude seems to change too and you attract things to you that are more in harmony with your authenticity.

6.     Decide what matters most. There is nothing like getting rid of things that are draining you, like taking control of your finances, your house, your life.

7.     Create a support network. Working with a coach gives you incredible support. Knowing that you’ve got someone behind you 100% goes a long way in helping you to take healthy risks and move forward.

8.     Get fit, lose weight, improve your performance…… Whatever the desire or goal a coach can help you to create a strategic plan that will work for you. Part of having a great life is being all you can be inside and out. Once you take control of what’s fueling you (a calling, purpose and passions) it’s easier to take on the activities needed to achieve that goal.

9.     Create Boundaries. Working with a coach can help you to see what you say yes to because you want to, and what you can let go of. A coach can help you find the cure for the disease to please.

10.   Create Balance. Humans need to find a balance of mind, body and spirit. A coach is there to help you find that in your life. We cannot be our best selves if we are stressed, overwhelmed and unhappy. A coach will help you to take charge and create your best life.

Coaching is a deep meaningful conversation with a confidant that has no opinion, biasness nor judgment about you. It is action-oriented and results oriented with gentle probing, and sometimes painfully honest accountability helping remove the resistance and obstacles getting between you and your desired outcome.

Occupy Movement – A Worldwide Awakening?

The greatest revolution of our generation is the discovery that human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.” ~ William James (1842-1910)

Beyond Occupy Wall Street

 

Occupy Wall Street – A Worldwide Awakening?

The Occupy   movement of 2011 began in the US and yet people all around the world have joined in to protest corruption and greed. It has become a worldwide awakening – people all around the earth have woken up and have no intention to be hushed. Looking deeper into the focus of the movement, the discussion here is about how each of us internalizes what we have believed in the past, why we believed such and how these beliefs evolved and maybe most important – to think twice whether our beliefs continue to serve us. The perspective given focus here is more spiritual than political, a philosophical view that might resonate best with those who digest the ‘law of attraction’ and who seek the silver lining of it all, to find peace amidst chaos within their own souls. It’s a perspective that might take awhile for one to wrap their brain around and yet finding peace within by doing the inner work of soul-searching might just be the foundation for positive change,  it might just be the evolution and transformation that matters MOST!

The Collective Evolution

An Energy Shift Toward Positive Evolution!

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Maybe you might have searched for deeper meaning, or for ways to contribute to the movement without becoming depressed and resentful about the entire mess. A major turning point in that search for this author appeared in this very important film featured below, a documentary released in September of 2011 and originating in Canada.The messages   in this incredible film focus around our personal beliefs and how they were formed as we mature. The significance to happenings in the world has to do with our inner beliefs having a strong energy vibration. As those beliefs evolve we may then connect and evolve along with the collective vibrations of beliefs of others in the evolution of our earth as we create a “Collective Evolution” .
 

Watch ‘The Collective Evolution’

Consider this brilliant perspective and the potential impact on world change.

Excellent documentary released in September 2011
 
The Collective Evolution II: The Human Experience | OFFICIAL RELEASE 2011
by CEvolutionTV |  

 

 

Not ‘Occupy Wall Street’ but “Occupy Self”

Inner Changes as a Foundation for Outer Change

Consider that instead of making outside changes first, we have the ability to make inner changes that ultimately will effect outer changes. Could it be that the power of this movement and worldwide shift is actually powered mainly by a ‘tipping point’ of awakening and enlightenment around the earth? Could the foundation of the movement be more about a qualitative change that is powered by inner personal changes and inspiration as a result of a collective momentum created by vibrations of evolution of worldwide thought?

 
The external changes we’re seeing are a result of the inner awakening of millions of people all over the world. Everything we see without is a projection of the inner world we each create for ourselves. What’s the difference between a personal projection and a collective projection? Let’s explore!

 

 

Mainstream Media & Other Controlled Substances

Do You Believe Everything You Think?

 
Those who still follow only mainstream  media channels for news may not realize that media itself is a huge part of the corruption and control. This is not to point blame on media itself, as most likely many media personnel are simply doing their jobs and following orders, regardless of personal beliefs. Our mainstream media channels are controlled by corporations and Wall Street, and the same goes for the NYPD officers who patrol Wall Street. While some of the NYPD have indeed acted in an atrocious manner, all were there initially to follow orders, to do their jobs.You are encouraged then, to close off mainstream media for awhile…at least put it on the back burner while you take the time to do the inner work and then… to re-think each belief from your own heart and mind. This is not about anyone dictating WHAT to think but HOW to think. It’s about shutting off the outer noise long enough to do some deep self introspection about WHY we believe what we do, and then consider whether changes are overdue.
 
 

 
We were all molded, now break free and create your OWN beliefs! 
 
To discuss any of the above, please call Tony at 707-372-8698 or email or leave message here. Thanks!

Self-Directed IRAs- we help start or rollover existing accounts

Self-Directed IRAs


We find that many of our clients were previously unaware that the Internal Revenue Service allows you to utilize your qualified funds (IRAs, 401k, Defined Benefit Plans, etc) to invest in non-traditional assets such as real estate and small business.

An IRA is really just a personal savings account that allows you to contribute annually for your retirement savings. It provides either a tax-deferred or tax-free way of saving for retirement. There are many different types of IRA accounts, though traditional and Roth IRAs are the most common.

The primary benefit of a Self-Directed IRA is that it allows you to invest in both traditional and non-traditional assets. Whether you choose to use professional investment guidance or not, no matter what your Investment choices are – you are in control of your future!

What Types of Plans Can Be Self-Directed

When you make the decision to Self-Direct your retirement funds, you give yourself control over how, when, and where you build your wealth. Any of the following accounts can be set-up as or converted to a Self-Directed plan:

  • Traditional IRAs
  • Roth IRAs
  • SEP IRAs
  • SIMPLE IRAs
  • Individual(k)
  • 401(k)s
  • Defined Benefit Plans
  •  Education Savings Accounts (ESA)
  • Health Savings Accounts (HSA)

 

With a Self-Directed Plan a whole world of investment opportunities opens up including traditional and non-traditional investments such as real estate, life settlement policies, mortgages notes, trust, deeds, private partnerships, private placements, timeshare units and limited liability companies. However the IRS does prohibit the following investments:

  • Life Insurance for yourself
  • Collectibles: Art, Antiques, Rugs, Gems, Stamps, etc..
  • Metals (except Gold, Silver & Palladium Bullion)
  • Coins (except US Minted Gold or Silver Eagle)
  • Alcoholic Beverages
  • Sub-Chapter S Corporations

Prohibited Transactions

In addition to some prohibited investments, your plan can be disqualified for improper use of your IRA or other self-directed account by you, your beneficiary, or any disqualified person including any of the following direct or indirect transactions:

  • Purchasing property currently owned by you
  • Using your account as security on a loan
  • Borrowing money from your account
  • Selling personal property to account
  • Purchasing real Estate for present use
  • Receiving payments for income generated from assets owned in your self-directed account

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Do you wonder how you’re ever going to be able to retire when you’re getting 3%, or 2%, or 1% a year, or even less, from your money market accounts, your CDs, and your government bonds?

(BY THE WAY, THAT IS LESS THAN THE RATE OF INFLATION, WHICH MEANS YOU ARE ACTUALLY LOSING MONEY AT THOSE CURRENT RATES OF RETURN!)

Are you tired of the constant roller coaster of the stock market, and wondering where you can find steady, consistent double-digit returns and cash flow each month?

Have you wondered how you can take advantage of the foreclosure crisis?

Those are some of the most common questions I ask my clients,  now  you can find the answers to ALL of them in one place.  

We will share with you exactly how you can use your retirement funds to safely and securely invest in completely turnkey cash flow properties that generate cash returns of at least 10%  each year just from the rent.

No more wondering how you can earn more than 1% a year in your retirement accounts without taking on enormous risk.  No more volatility with the value of your portfolio dropping in half one year and doubling the next.  And no more watching others profit from the foreclosure crisis when YOU should be the one profiting from it!

Remember, the definition of insanity is continuing to do the same things, and expecting different results.  ACT NOW!  Do something different, and CREATE DIFFERENT RESULTS!

Time to end the madness of crazy volatility and low returns and start investing in consistent, performing cash flowing assets.

To learn more about the benefits of Self-Directed investing or getting started today call 707-372-8698, email at  CTCinternational@aol.com   or leave message here.

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There is a saying that epitomizes the dangers of surrendering too much of your independence: “Those who giveth can also taketh away.” With that in mind, it should come as no surprise that in Portugal – and, most likely, a number of other nations in the months and years to come – state-provided pension funds are no longer safe from the government’s all-powerful reach.

Life is a series of “Problems” and full of suffering, however, “unnecessary” suffering is optional!

A problem is an opportunity to grow, learn, stretch…

Life is difficult!  This is one of the greatest truths (one of the 4 Noble Truths). Once we truly see and accept this truth then we can transcend it.

This whole  process of meeting and solving problems is what gives life meaning. Problems are the cutting edge of what determines/distinguishes success and failure. Problems call forth our courage and wisdom, in fact it creates courage and wisdom! It is only because of problems that we grow mentally/emotionally and spiritually.

To encourage the growth of the human spirit we challenge and encourage the capacity to solve problems, just as in school we deliberately set forth problems for our children to solve. It is through the pain of confronting and resolving problems that we learn.  “Those things that hurt, instruct” from Ben Franklin, is one reason that wise people learn not to dread but actually to embrace problems and the pain associated with them.  Alas, most of us are not so wise. Fearing the pain involved, most of us to a greater or lesser degree, attempt to avoid problems. We procrastinate, hoping the will go away as well as ignore them, forget them and pretend they do not exist. We skirt  around problems rather than meet them head on. We attempt to get out of rather than suffer through them. This ”tendency to avoid problems and the associated emotional suffering is the primary basis of all human mental illness” (Scott Peck-”Road less traveled”)

“Neurosis is always a substitute for legitimate suffering” Carl Jung

Fortunately, some people possess  the courage to face their problems  and begin- usually with help- to learn how to experience legitimate suffering. Which begs the question

 ”What is “unnecessary  suffering”?

 One great description is 

The Art of Happiness: A Handbook for Living

H.H. the Dalai Lama, Howard C. Cutler

“Whether one believes in religion or not, whether one believes in this religion or that religion, the very purpose of our life is happiness, the very motion of our life is towards happiness.” –H.H. the Dalai Lama, from The Art of Happiness

“Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” — Dalai Lama

You owe it to yourself , and if you have children to them, to learn the basic set of tools required to solve problems and teach the necessity of suffering and the value thereof, the need to face problems directly and to experience the pain involved. 

Again, according to Scott Peck, “Discipline” is the basic set of tools required.  Also , here are a few  techniques to deal with suffering,  the way in which we experience the pain of problems as to work through them and solve them successfully, learning and growing in the process. When we teach ourselves and our children discipline, we are teaching them and ourselves how to suffer and also how to grow.

What are these tools, techniques of suffering, means of experiencing the pain of problems constructively that Scott Peck calls discipline? There are four

1. delaying of gratification

2. acceptance of responsibility

3. dedication to the truth

4. balancing

These are not complex tools that need extensive training, in fact they are simple tools that almost all children are adept at by age 10. Yet presidents and kings will often forget to to use, often to their downfall. The problem lies not is the complexity of the tools but in the will to use them.

To discuss the 4 tools and techniques further contact me at 707-372-8698 or email or leave a comment.   I look forward to connecting you with the info to help you along your path

Contracting is Vital; Legal contracts are not! ( and To Contract or Not to Contract)

Contracting is Vital; Legal contracts are not

Done well, all of  our early marketing considerations will yield clients who want to use our unique combination of abilities and are willing to put their resources behind their wants. Now it is time to reach a common understanding with those clients.

There is nothing more important to the consulting process than attending to contracting. You must attend to it constantly because it is alive and always moving, changing, and adapting to what is happening.  The client and consultant  need to be mutually clear about what each expects of the other and what each is going to provide the other. Contracting is an exchange of wants and needs that goes both ways. It starts with the 1st contract and is alive, and being renegotiated, throughout the entire consulting relationship.  Either person can open a discussion of this living contract at any time. If my needs as a consultant are different now than they were yesterday, then I will open a conversation. If the wants of a client are going to be different tomorrow, then  he or she should discuss that with me today.

My contracting differs from a legal contract. My reservations about legalistic contracting concerns what happens to the partnership while the legal document is being created. A legal contract, once it is finished is more dead than alive. Contracts that emphasize form more than substance kill the client –consulting partnership. Contracts that are legalistic have the same effect on our relationships with our clients that prenuptial agreements have on marriage. Even when they are necessary, they are not very romantic, and certainly not what the partnership is all about. I avoid them whenever possible.

I attempt  to create a contracting process with my clients that is alive and adaptable, not one that is fixed in ink. I encourage trust between client and consultant. I see anything that smacks of

 mistrust- as defensive legal contracts can do-as damaging to the partnership I want to establish. I favor written communication that records what we decided so we don’t forget our responsibilities. I keep files/emails tracking the work the client and I are doing together, but I balk at anything written that suggests we need to protect ourselves from each other.

I have never required a client to sign an agreement with me. I have been “burned” only a few times in my over twenty plus years in consulting and  then not  badly enough to reconsider  my practice that “our word is our bond”.

Clients occasionally require some form of contract with me and I am usually willing to sign what they put together. I am not ornery about it, I just don’t encourage the practice by giving it attention. If all that is required of me is a signature then I’ll sign. If the legal contract begins to intrude on our work discussions, I get concerned. At the same time, I must acknowledge that most of the major  problems I have had as a client and as a consultant, can be traced back to poor contracting. I hasten to add that the problems would not have been solved by a legalistic document or process. Instead I would criticize my own lack of clarity, inattention to detail, failure to keep up with changes, or misunderstanding of the other persons intentions. Just because it is a barrier for me doesn’t mean that it is a poor fit for everyone. I also know that my “ contractless approach”  is possible because I am a one-person firm taking on projects of limited scope. But, whatever the size and nature of your consulting business, watch out for relationships that focus more on the written word than what is happening between the people involved.  ( Peter Block’s book “ Flawless Consulting”, provides an excellent description of a contracting process).

Now that my biases are clear, how do I integrate my need for a living contract with the need for a written memory of what we are doing together?  Following a discussion or negotiation with a client, I find it useful to outline in an email/letter the major points covered and the actions we plan to take. I see this as confirming our contracting rather than a contract  in the legal sense. I will do whatever I can to make sure the client and I understand each other, and reinforcing our face to face meetings with the written word just makes sense. It gives us a mutual record of what has happened.

In my early years as a consultant, I spent a lot of time talking with clients about what I would do and they would do, however, lately I have found that it is useful to make a few more assumptions about how we are going to work together, to reinforce  actions that fit with my assumptions, and to question actions that do not. To me this is similar to dancing with someone you have never danced with before. You and this new dance partner do not have to go through a long negotiation about when you are going to dance, who is going to lead or follow, or how long you will dance. There is usually an invitation, an acceptance, and a dance. You learn from each other as you go along what each needs to do to allow the dance to work. It is much less important to me than it used to be to stop working/dancing in order to talk about how things are going. More often, I try to check in regularly  how we are doing as we work.

My current practice is to begin the contracting with more positive assumptions about how the client and I will work with each other and to put fewer concrete details in the initial contracting process. Then I watch to see how those assumptions are borne out in the work, and I continue contracting as the work calls for it.  I see to it that the client and I have a clear understanding of what will happen between now and our work horizon.  And I don’t spend much time contracting for what is over the horizon. I find clients are more drawn to this approach than to my process laden contracting of  a few years back.  I also find that we get more work done and our contracting is more relevant because it’s more timely. 

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Also since above is more left brain here is one for the right side

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 To Contract or Not to Contract

I have been asked to write a short piece addressing the issue of formalizing agreements in a written contract.  At the outset, it should be noted that although there are many fundamental contract principles which are universal, each state has their own laws and regulations with regards to contractual relationships. In addition, many professional associations mandate certain constraints, requirements and ethical codes when contracting with clients. You should always check those local regulations first and consult with an attorney in your area.

Ok. Enough caveats. Many people confuse the notion of a contract with an agreement. They often think that you need to have a written contract in order to have an agreement, and they make the further mistake of assuming that a written contract is more powerful than an oral agreement. I remember a professor I had in  school who was famous for saying (in a Texan accent): “A contract won’t protect you from stupidity or dishonesty.”  Among all the things I learned in school, this is the only statement that has remained absolutely true over the years.

A contract is memorial of an agreement. Lawyers often call it a “recital” of the reciprocal obligations. However, a written agreement is not magical. Many states will enforce an oral agreement as binding upon the parties. Certain agreements, such as transfers of land, must be in writing. However, the list of contracts the must be in writing is remarkably short in most states. So the fact that you do not have a written contract does not mean you cannot enforce your agreement. So don’t panic if you have always made hand shake arrangements, or continue to do so today.

People often also make the false assumption that a written contract somehow protects them in a special way.  Don’t get me wrong, a written agreement is far superior to an oral agreement in that the terms and obligations are in black and white for everyone to see. However, if the contract is poorly written or if terms are ambiguous, the contract may not be enforced by a court, or certain clauses in the contract may be given no legal affect. Unfortunately, those clauses could have been the ones you were counting on in order to get paid!  Of course, some people can simply choose to disregard a contract, and you have no choice other than spend your own money to sue the party, spend several years of your life fighting the suit, and hope you win. Remember: a contract is only as good as the people who sign it.

You are fully able to draft a contract yourself. You may want to consult books that contain form contracts, or use self-help legal books. Nolo Press (www.nolo.com) is the best known publisher in that realm. If the contract is complex, , it is strongly recommended that you seek the advice of a lawyer. Always have a lawyer review any contract presented to you for signing. If you choose to write it yourself, here are a few pointers:

1. Use simple language – say what you mean and mean what you say. Even among lawyers, there is a movement away from “legalese”. Use the KISS method.

2. Due your best to describe all of the terms and obligations. It is helpful to have paragraphs labeled “Obligations of Me” and “Obligations of You”. Fill in proper names for “Me” and “You.”.

3. Make the contract fair to both sides. If you make the contract heavily weighted in your favor, there is a good chance the other party will just walk away from it, and a court may not look favorably on your heavy-handedness. Even if you sneak a certain clause past the other party, you won’t sneak it past a judge.

4. Try to think of some worst case scenario. It is difficult, but when you write a contract you need to think of a day when you and the other party are not speaking to each other anymore (picture a pre-nuptial). It’s not fun, because now is the time when business is great and everyone is smiling. Prepare for the rainy day in your contract. You will be happier when that day comes. Notice, I didn’t say “if” that day comes.

5. Have a lawyer review it, or at the very least, show it to someone with experience in your industry. Two heads are better than one, and if this is your first time at this, you should get some advice.

6. Have everyone sign and date the document and produce two originals so each party has a copy.

A carefully drafted contract that accurately describes the obligations, and one that is fair to all parties is a very useful tool. It will be a document that you will refer to often during the relationship. If disputes arise, it will be invaluable to quickly prevent a disintegration of the relationship. You will not remember what you agreed to many months down the road. If you have a written contract, you can quickly review what the parties need to do. You may be surprised to find out that they are right and you are wrong!

Depending on your type of business, a few of the things you might want to include in a contract are:

􀀹 Term or length of agreement

􀀹 Fees

􀀹 Payment terms

􀀹 Cancellation terms, including fees

􀀹 Details of services or work to be performed

􀀹 Client responsibilities such as providing office space or access to information

􀀹 Who pays expenses for travel, materials, etc.

􀀹 Appropriate disclaimers

􀀹 How any dispute about the contract will be handled

The last thing I’ll leave you with is “take your time.” You should never draft a contract quickly or rush through it because you are anxious to start the work. This is a sure-fire way of writing a contract that does not fully describe the relationship. You may also end up with a contract that is sloppy in its construction and proves itself useless in Court. If you follow these simple rules you will find that your business relationships are much  smoother, and many difficult situations can be avoided. Happy contracting!

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